Deciding in Style: Women at a Crossroads, Mastering Confident Choices

Hello to all the amazing ladies out there!

It is time to get real and BE real. It is time to talk "Crossroads" and the blessing that they are. It is time to talk about YOU and YOUR decision-making process. So, let's delve into one of the most often occurring and also neglected topics for us: finding ourselves at a crossroads. Crossroads -- if you heard me before you know they are REAL; and ... they can happen all the time, actually they do happen all the time. Some are big, some are small, and often we may not even realize that the small ones are as important because we don't identify them as such. Yet, facing a crossroads (fork in the road) is a pivotal moment that requires us to make important decisions. As I mentioned, sometimes these are small, such as : "What will I make for dinner tonight?"; and sometimes they are big, such as: "Do I want to continue in this job?" and so forth. All of them have one thing in common. What is it you ask? I will share some of it with you right now and then ... read on for the deep commonality (you might know it before you get to the end....) Well -- it is YOUR call to return to YOU. It is the invitation to STOP doing what is expected, breathe, and reflect. It is the invitation to reconnect with who you are and - dare I say it? - what YOU WANT. Right here is the point of contempt.... do we know what we really want? Even the dinner decision is about you, by the way. Are you making a dinner you enjoy? Are you making a dinner the family enjoys? Are you making a healthy dinner? Are you deciding not to make dinner because you are tired and choose not to... for you?

To help you understand this exciting yet sometimes overwhelming phase, let's explore some practical action steps on how to handle decision-making with confidence. These will get you started and you are still serving yourself best if you create a support system.

1. Self-Reflection: Start by taking a deep breath and engaging in self-reflection. Ask yourself what truly matters to you, what aligns with your values, and what brings you joy. Take the time to understand your desires, aspirations, and the potential consequences of each decision. Journaling, meditation, or discussing with a trusted friend can aid in gaining clarity.

2. Define Your Priorities: Once you've reflected on your values and desires, it's important to define your priorities. Rank the factors that are most important to you in making this decision. Is it personal growth, financial stability, relationships, or something else entirely? By knowing your priorities, you'll have a clearer framework for evaluating your options.

3. Gather Information: Knowledge is power when it comes to decision-making. Research, gather information, and seek different perspectives on the choices before you. Explore the potential outcomes, risks, and opportunities associated with each path. This information will help you make an informed decision and feel more confident about your choice.

4. Trust Your Intuition: While it's essential to gather information, don't discount the power of your intuition. Deep down, you possess an inner wisdom that can guide you in the right direction. Pay attention to your gut feelings and listen to your instincts. Often, your intuition will provide valuable insights that rational analysis cannot.

5. Seek Support: Remember, you are not alone in this process. Seek support from friends, family, or mentors who can offer guidance and perspective. Engage in meaningful conversations that help you gain different insights and challenge your own biases. Sometimes, talking through your options can bring new clarity and provide a fresh perspective.

6. Embrace the Decision: Once you've evaluated your options and weighed the pros and cons, it's time to make a decision. Trust yourself and embrace the path you choose. Understand that no decision is set in stone, and life is a continuous journey of learning and growth. Even if challenges arise, trust in your ability to adapt and make necessary adjustments along the way.

7. Take Action: Decisions are meaningless without action. Once you've made your choice, take the necessary steps to move forward. Break down your decision into manageable tasks and set achievable goals. Celebrate small victories along the way, and remember that progress is often made one step at a time.

8. Embrace the Journey: Lastly, embrace the journey. Know that decisions, even the tough ones, have the potential to lead you toward personal growth and fulfillment. Trust that you have the strength and resilience to handle any challenges that may come your way. Embrace the unknown with an open heart and a curious mind.

Being at a crossroads is an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. By following these action steps, you'll handle decision-making with confidence, knowing that you've considered your values, gathered information, sought support, and trusted yourself. Embrace the journey, make choices aligned with your authentic self, and watch yourself blossom.

And yes, the one thing that all of Crossroads have in common - I promised you above I'll share it with you -- is : YOU and YOUR self-love.

How do we reconnect with that is now the next question? Well, that's the fun part of this journey! Let's talk about reconnecting the head (analytics) and the heart (feeling) as that is what is required to begin the journey back to you and your purpose-filled life.

Wishing you calm, clarity and connection to regain all your self-confidence and self-love to shine YOUR light today.

Submitted with gratitude by Dr. Natalie Forest "Revolutionary Rule Breaker" (Note from editor: she's also a great life coach)